POSSESSION
by Melanie Martinez
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Song Analysis for POSSESSION
POSSESSION serves as a scathing critique of domestic abuse, coercive control, and the psychological erasure of self within a toxic relationship. Within the narrative of Melanie Martinez's fourth studio album, HADES, the song introduces a new era and potentially a new character archetype, distinct from Cry Baby and the Creature.
The central metaphor of the song is objectification. By describing herself as a porcelain doll on a shelf, Martinez illustrates the experience of a partner who is valued solely for their aesthetic appeal and compliance, rather than their humanity. The lyrics "Handle me like a weapon" suggest that the abuser uses the partner not just as a trophy, but as a tool to inflict pain or assert dominance, perhaps even against the partner's own will.
The song also explores the concept of performative submission. The cheerful, rhythmic chant of "di-di-dum" and the lines about being a "good housewife" satirize the societal expectations placed on women to remain pleasant and accommodating even in the face of betrayal and verbal abuse. The narrator's willingness to be "gaslit" is not an endorsement of the behavior, but a chilling depiction of the survival strategies victims employ to avoid conflict ("so I don't break down to pieces").
The ending, where the protagonist drives into a tree, represents a chaotic reclamation of agency. The crash is a violent rupture of the status quo—a desperate attempt to feel something real or simply to escape the numbing confinement of the "jar." The final dismissal of the injury ("It's not that bad") highlights how skewed the victim's perception of pain has become; physical bruises are trivial compared to the invisible wounds of their captivity.
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